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The
moment that you have waited for has finally arrived: the day you
bring your newborn baby home from the hospital.
Like
all other expectant parents you will have spent the last nine
months preparing for this day. You will have a baby room full
of everything a newborn could possibly want. You will have read
book after book on a wide magnitude of baby topics from what to
name your baby to when you can expect those first words. You will
have walked and paced the length of baby's room, imagining your
little bundle sleeping peacefully in her crib. Now the moment
has arrived. In the crib lies your sleeping baby and the most
exciting adventure of life is about to begin.
The first
few days home from the hospital are just as important to you as
they are to your baby. As new parents you will have gone through
an exciting birth that will have left you breathless and exhilarated.
During your
first days at home it may be wise to limit the amount of visitors
that you welcome into your home. You need time to recuperate and
settle into the routine that a sleeping, feeding, and often crying
baby brings into your life.
As a new mother
you will need to pay particular attention to the way that you
are feeling so that those 'baby blues' don't creep up and surprise
you unexpectedly. It is normal to feel a bit out of sorts and
sad for the first couple of weeks after giving birth. Your body
is going through some major physical changes after the birth of
your baby. Your hormones will be changing and you likely will
be feeling a lack of sleep. You should be patient with yourself,
understand that all these feelings are normal, and that in a couple
of weeks things will feel better for you.
If
you find that you are feeling more and more depressed, and find
it difficult to care for yourself and your family, you should
consult your doctor so that he/she can determine if you are suffering
from a condition called postpartum depression.
While
not serious, postpartum depression can leave a new mother despondent,
tired, and subject to emotional swings and loss of appetite. The
effects of giving birth, hormone changes and the lifestyle changes
of having a newborn (not sleeping, being indoors a lot, responsibilities
of caring for a baby) can lead to a bout of the baby blues. Baby
blues are usually short lived and go away without treatment.
During the
first few days at home your family will be adjusting to the additional
member of your family. If you have other children at home you
may be dealing with feelings of jealousy as the new baby takes
center stage. Make sure that you include your other children in
the day-to-day activities that are part of the new baby's routine.
Let older children help with diaper changing, feeding, and just
sitting and holding the new baby if they are old enough to do
so.
This
is your time to adjust to the changes in your life and settle
into a comfortable routine - at least for the moment!
Author:
John Pawlett from Diapers By Design, an informative resources site
about Diapers. Find out how Diapers By Design can expand your horizons
at www.diapersbydesign.com
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