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If you're about
to have a baby, no doubt the subject of circumcision for a boy baby
has entered your mind. Circumcision is a personal choice but, of
course, it's one that you're making for another person so you tend
to feel a fair amount of pressure to make a good decision. Here
are some things to think about that might make your choice easier.
In the US, the
majority of boys are circumcised, though the numbers are declining
somewhat. In other parts of the world, most non-Jewish boys are
not circumcised. The difference seems to be almost entirely cultural.
There is really no right or wrong answer here, but I think one good
guideline is "like father, like son". The father is most
likely the person who will teach the boy how to handle his personal
hygiene in this area, so taking Dad's personal situation into account
might be a good way to make the decision. My husband is circumcised,
as is our oldest son, but our younger son is not. He was not circumcised
when we adopted him at ten months, and we chose not to add the trauma
of circumcision to his life, considering all the other adjustments
he had at the time. My husband had to do some research on the subject
to feel prepared to teach our son the proper care of an uncircumcised
penis. Our son is six, and at this point, has never asked about
the difference between his penis and his older brother's and Dad's.
One thing to
consider about circumcision: it is a decision you need to make early
on. Part of the reason we chose not to have our younger son circumcised
was the fact that, at ten months old, it would have been much more
physically painful than if he had been circumcised as a newborn.
I'm sure it's no walk in the park at any age, but do realize that
if you don't have your son circumcised right away, it might not
be wise to change your mind a few months down the road.
A final note
about circumcision: not all penises are the same. Some boys have
much more foreskin than others. If your son has only a small amount
of foreskin, your doctor may refer to this as a "natural circumcision",
and recommend that you not have a circumcision performed, unless
it is for religious reasons. This means that your son's foreskin
is not likely to cause hygiene issues, nor will it be prone to infection,
as are some uncircumcised penises.
It's wise to
talk to your doctor before you make a decision about circumcision.
It's a decision that you need to feel good about, and worth the
time it takes to sort out the facts.
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