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The
moment finally arrives; you are now officially a mother. All of
that morning sickness, pain, and anxiety of giving birth is finally
over. Your baby is in your arms and is looking right into your
eyes. I bet you never thought you could love someone so much.
You are in such awe and amazement of how cute and precious your
little bundle of joy is. You don't want to ever let go of your
baby, but you know the nurses need to do their job. You get your
rest, while your baby is gone and wait for the moment that your
baby can be snuggling back in your arms. All has been well in
the hospital and you feel confident to take you and your new love
one home.
Now
that you are at home with your baby, you will be able to rest
more without the nurses being in your room all day long and you
get full 100 percent personal time with your baby. Until, what?
The baby won't stop crying, you have tried to feed her, give her
a pacifier, rock her, sing to her, nothing is working. And on
top of it, she won't stop spitting up and pooping.
You
are now realizing that coming home was probably not the right
choice to make and that you are tempted to pack up your stuff
and take you and the baby back to the hospital for a few more
nights of rest. And we as little girls thought that all of the
years as a child playing with baby dolls would pay off. Wrong!
That was nothing like what you are now experiencing.
This
article is not intended to scare the pregnant moms away. It is
about encouraging moms to get the help they need when they most
definitely can use it. It is about recommending to pregnant moms
that staying in the hospital for two days is worth it. Don't get
jumpy and want to jump head first into your new role as a mom.
Your hormones are still out of whack, you just gave birth to a
baby the size of a bolling ball, and you are literally worn out!
By
taking on too much in the beginning, you will make yourself sick
and then won't have anytime to spend taking care of your precious
baby. You may have post-partum depression and not even realize
it. By trying to play a "super mommy" you will stress
yourself out and in the long run it will catch up with you. Trust
me, I know! I am the mother of four and I have gone through what
you are getting ready to experience. These are my tips for once
you are released from the hospital:
Tip
#1
Sleep, sleep, sleep
Tip
#2
Don't have visitors to your house the first week or you will
just want to clean
Tip
#3
Take the help, actually, recruit the help! For example, have
your friend run to the grocery store for you.
Tip
#4
Don't try to do to much the first few weeks. Only do what you
have to do.
Tip
#5
If you have a partner, have the partner help you with as much
as possible. For instance, rotate nights on feeding and calming
baby.
Tip
#6
Long before your due date, prepare your younger children on
what to expect with having a new baby sister or brother. One
good idea is to allow them to go pick out a gift for the baby
to bring up to the hospital or for when you come home with baby.
Please
take these tips seriously! You will be glad you did and you will
recover a lot quicker and have much more time to enjoy your new
baby.
Information
about the Author: Dawn Lambie, author, is the mother of four. To
get more free tips on caring for your baby, feel free to visit her
website at www.diaperyears.com
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