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You
have read all the lists about what to pack for the big day. You
have outlined every aspect of your birth plan. You have copied,
checked and re-checked every list to make sure you have forgotten
nothing. Do you really need to pack emery boards and a facial spritzer?
How about that tennis ball for lower back pain? Unless you plan
to fill a steamer trunk and your luxurious birthing suite accommodates
luggage for a 13-day cruise, here are the basics of what you need
to have with you at delivery time.
First,
and I cannot make this clear enough; pack your "suitcase"
ahead of time and put it in the primary car that you drive. I have
been in the baby business for six years and I have heard story after
story of last minute scrambles and misplaced necessities. You might
be going to your 37 week check up getting ready to spend the next
2 to 3 weeks off your feet eating bonbons only to find out your
OB nurse has wrangled up a wheel chair with your name on it headed
straight for the maternity ward for an unscheduled inducement. Having
the bag in the car can save precious moments in a hectic situation.
Everyone
envisions a peaceful and glowing birth with operatic angels singing
a welcome aria in the tranquil birthing suite. Reality? Childbirth
is unpredictable. Prioritizing your needs and wants is critical.
Preserving the experience on video or film is a must for most first
timers. Not everyone enjoys the thought of putting their body on
display for the videographer, but if you would like to relive the
experience, pack a video camera with extra media and a back up battery
in the bag. You would not want to miss a picture of your baby's
first few minutes. A still camera with extra media and a back up
battery is a must have as well.
If
you are enjoying the benefits of an epidural, something to pass
the time is important. This may be friends and family to cheer you
on through the peaks of contractions or a magazine or book if you
are progressing slowly.
If
the hospital policy allows for music (and most major hospitals now
supply CD players in the delivery suites) a special CD or compilation
will help keep your mind busy and may serve as a soundtrack that
will always bring back memories of the most courageous, beautiful
and miraculous experience you may ever have.
You
will need socks for your entire stay so pack several pairs. Most
people forget the socks and the hospital offers little help for
cold feet. Skip the pricey cashmere versions just in case you cannot
imagine parting ways with socks that have been through the ringer
in the hospital.
Post
delivery the nurses will be tending to your physical recovery so
this is when the comforts of home become necessary. No doubt you
will have visitors and even though everyone will be celebrating
the arrival of the baby, your friends and family will congratulate
you on your magnificent accomplishment. Why not look your best?
You don't need a full face of make up and blow out to look good.
A hairbrush, toothbrush, a face towel and some lip gloss will make
you feel amazing. Speaking of blow out, if you need a hairdryer
make sure to bring one with you. Bring a special set of pajamas
and a robe (prepare in advance if you plan to breastfeed as there
are special clothes, including bras, designed to make breastfeeding
simple to do without completely disrobing every time). Whether you
deliver the old fashion way or via c-section, you should pack some
large pads. If you plan to recover for several days at the hospital,
do not forget shampoo, conditioner and lotion. The hospital can
certainly be nice, but it is not the Four Seasons.
Between
feedings and visits you may have time to call or email friends and
family. Pack along important contact names and numbers. Have a calling
card ready just in case cell phones are prohibited and the phones
are for local calls only.
Dads
or partners should bring along essentials that include a change
of clothes for day and night, a kit with hygiene necessities, cell
phone, a laptop if the hospital allows, snacks and cameras. Most
hospitals allow for the partner to spend the entire time with the
recovering mother, but they offer few amenities.
You
will need to prepare very few things for your new baby. The hospital
supplies many of the necessities you need so take advantage of those
items. However, nothing is more important than a car seat for the
drive home. The car seat should be installed correctly and adjusted
to fit the new baby. You will also need a few outfits and some soft
receiving blankets. If you plan to bottle feed, bring along pre-mixed
formula in the brand you prefer.
For
your trip home you should have a comfortable set of clothes. Since
your body will change very little from birth to the ride home it
is safe to use maternity clothes for the trip. Bringing pre-pregnancy
clothes is simply unrealistic not to mention discouraging.
You
may have other creature comforts not mentioned here, but be judicious
about what you pack. Again, pack early and keep a suitcase in the
car at all times. Being prepared could remove unneeded stress during
this wonderfully life changing event.
About
The Author: Kathie Papera, founder and owner of Lilypad
Baby a premier site for stylish and unique baby gifts that can
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